So how can you be jealous of someone who has something you already had? There is absolutely no way you should be mad at someone you have already been with because he or she is not with you or didn't do what you thought they would. We all make choices in love. Your choices may have spearheaded their choices so you can't place fault 100% on one individual. That is when you should ask yourself a few questions...If you are going out of your way to make someone feel jealous or to prove that your situation is better without that individual, how much better is it? Why would you put energy into making something look better than what it is? Seems like you are trying to fool yourself.
I know we have all been there. I believe we have all been in a place where we have wanted someone and for whatever reasons you could not make out why it didn't work, but instead of closing that chapter of your life properly you chose to trump up your current situation to make that individual jealous. As many love and life lessons I had to learn to finally get this I understand now that to fool yourself is foolish. We know the true desires of our hearts so instead of making something seem better actually make it better. Exhale! Breathe out the past and welcome the new. Don't try to move on faster than your heart will allow. You don't want to deal with that regret.
I vowed to myself to always put myself first moving forward and not let my emotions cloud my rational thought. And I will be perfectly honest with you, doing this has not always yield results that I wanted. And that hurts to know that my decision didn't align with my heart but it does align with what I know I deserve and what I know to be right. Too many people are nieve. We are intuitive creators for a reason. When your intuition speaks to you I encourage you to listen! Because sometimes our patience is tested to make sure that we learn the lessons in love to be the lover that we long to be. You won't know that if your just in a rush to be a lover. Love is far beyond the idea society dreamt up. We have to be patient and willing to learn and grow before we can appreciate true love. If that means 50 years old for me that means I will wait patiently. Because I can't love anything less than wholeheartedly. And when you love, when you truly love there is no jealousy.
